Sound like you have your own issues. Calling people "idiots' over the internet with someone you're never going to meet is real brave of you.

Besides, not having someone serve you because they are gay or "effiminate" as you stated, is the fucking defintion of discrimination. Everyone else seemed to get that but you. Your logic is totally off and ridiculous. It's the textbook definition of it. Besides, if you're threatened by someone being gay, then perhaps you need to figure out your own sexuality. If you're secure in your sexuality, then no one can make you uncomfortable. NO ONE.

My fiance is the same way. He lives in a neighborhood with a ton of gay men in Chicago and he has never once felt uncomfortable. His best friend is gay and he laughs and they go out. WHY? because he's secure in his sexuality. He is very secure.

You might want to stop calling others idiots if you're going to be one yourself.